Your Self Confidence is an Index. What does it Reflect? 

Your Self Confidence is an Index and it reflects your attitude. Yes, you read it right and let me tell you, it matters much. Why it is so important? Because your attitude defines your altitude. 

What defines you and the direction of your growth and success are not the circumstances that might have consumed your energy, age and time nor education, neither appearance nor your skills but its attitude. Self-confidence is your index that reflects your attitude; Quotes Charles Swindoll’s, an author and educator. 

What determines your altitude is not your past that what you have gone through or the facts that you’ve encountered, failures that you’ve refused to surrender or success that thresh hold you into open skies to explore and soar high.

Self-confidence means you accept and trust yourself and have a sense of control in your life. You are aware of your strengths and weakness well and have a positive perspective about opportunities that comes your way. 

You know well how to pindown threats. Your self-confidence is the index of your SWOT abilities. You set realistic expectations and goals, communicate assertively, and can handle criticism. 

You know well, self-doubts & Self pitty are the perfect recipes for self-destruction. It’s a disease that eats away your peace like a parasite and is widespread you understand this and give no space to misgivings. 

People with low self-confidence slide down the slippery slope of low self-esteem in no time. The clouds of self-doubt take over and they get lost fast in depression. Incarnating confidence and belief in self is a high priority confidence-boosting work, a therapy one need to practice to be a truly optimistic person. 

One needs to act upon and build a narrative for self-reference for past achievements that impact and inspire themselves to do better setting higher goals for next time, reducing the time of recovery, building on endurance and resilience. 

I can do it, I believe in myself are the affirmations one have to remind themselves. Words are powerful, words can fuel life in any soul when one can able to manifest and impact as well to build a transcendental environment.  

Life is way too short to stress over sweating the small stuff. Never judge and not feel bad either walking away from the things that make you sad & stressed. 

Compare not yourself with others for there will always be someone greater or less than you. Enjoy your achievements and be interested in your own career, you mustn’t have to be a people pleaser. 

Impact and not influence, when someone is good from inside that doesn’t take much work to reflect outside. Don’t get into the loop of impression or influence, live life with confidence. 

One has to stop seeking validation from people or situation. Place your faith in the Divine, who never fails to supports, provide & shield you in time of sudden misfortune. Don’t try to fit into this world or belong to some cult or individual. Set your rule, live your life by all your means and your choice, living right. 

Not in competition with others but to be a sacred version of self each day to come up better. When a person works with the oneness of “mind body and soul”, the outcome of such work is exemplary and one doesn’t go out of energy neither suffers fatigue. 

Appreciation, motivation boosting positive aspiration is the rewarding system that the mind acknowledges and released thresh hold energy that raises the spirit and pushes the body to do one more and better. Don’t seek validation from others, be your own cheerleader, if you will not appreciate your self who else will? Others too will not for wold is busy, what you will project people would notice and enjoy. 

The truth is no one can define you & your limits except you. This is the power of self-love, self-confidence. When you choose what you want to be with all chin up head high ready to face fears and Challenges and Consequences knowing there will be lessons or success. 

Be Fierce, Be Kind, Be Awesome, Be Yourself. Courage doesn’t mean you don’t get afraid. Courage means You don’t let fear stop you, your courage is your confidence. Be a people pleaser and let the thing be as they are. Or take Courage, take the reins in your grasp knowing confidence is KINDNESS.

Learn to love yourself, Live your life by your choice. The first rule of service is; Love yourself Please. Let no one ever tell you what you can or can’t be. The only thing is you cannot do is ever obstructing others from chasing victory. Speakup and stand for what you believe in, even if it’s difficult and you need a step ottoman.

Be unique and pursue your dreams, respect means; both giving and receiving. Go forward with a twinkle in your eyes and a smile on your face with a strong and great purpose in your heart spreading cheering kindness. 

Expect Greatness, Seek Love, Dream Big, Thrive to Achieve. 

Never expect less for self for great expectation create great future. Expectations never bear frustration or disappointment but failing to live by them. In the end, how you feel matters, even if losing makes you feel better than you are a Winner. 

If you imagine less, less will be what you undoubtedly deserve. Do what you love, and don’t stop until you get what you love. Work as hard as you can, imagine immensities, don’t compromise, and don’t waste time. Your attitude defines the level of your altitude to rise and thrive all being confident. 

Know, You Are The Maker of Your Own Destiny!