In fact, many a time allowing to be taken as granted let the other person move away because they never get the sense that you desire or need them much.
The feuds flag the flames of romance, the arguments bring uncertainty and changes that are good for any relationships. On the other hand, taking the partner as granted, is habitually associated with stability and confidence in the relationship subconsciously, however, it leads to dampening the efforts and investment of emotions that is needed and it weakens the bond in long run.
Being humble prevents ego to flourish. It’s fundamentally incorrect that, when a couple’s love is profound and trust powers,” taken for granted prevails”.
Thomas Merton defines, “We cannot stay at the highest peak of intensity forever and expecting for it, will sadden us. Happiness is just not about the intensity but balance and harmony. Profundity is necessary for us to flourish and develop. Romantic intensity is like a click moment of a snapshot but the romantic profundity with the imperial dimension of love has greater significance.”
A closer sense of selflessness or say, unconditional love must evolve with the change is the status quo, form intensity to profoundness.
Between two souls nature has to be promoting the flourishing of the partner, while at the same time being together is the essence of the relationship.
The trust is true love, which does not scare of risk, the default attitude of suspicion is never constant. “One may be deceived if trust too much, but will live in suffering unless you trust enough”.~Frank Crane
True love risks everting and seeks nothing. Seek that sense of true love and you will never feel again, “Taken as Granted”
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