We all have the same 24 hours a day & 365 days a year, each day is new bringing brightness ‘n blessings, opportunities to act upon creating new beginnings. Nothing remains old over the face of the earth and so, are the people.
Our lives are like books, and each day brings a new chance to ink new narratives. What new we bring to the day define its newness. Kids, Health, Carrier and Social Life and Lifestyle, our deeply rooted ways. The secret to the successful future is hidden in this routine, the essence to consistently following the reps with grit, that EXTRA bit that we bring in, in ACTION delineate us from Ordinary to Extraordinary, being happy humans?
Fitness is not the mark of health, wealth is not the mark of being rich. But its peace of mind and happiness is the new definition of a successful being. Believe and know you can be a bit extra from your usual self. Adding up a bit extra of life joy and happiness intricating yourself from ordinary to extraordinary.
Being alive witnessing the morning light being gracious already defines you are exemplary. Do you know, being alive is in itself is an extraordinary piece of good luck, a miracle that happens to mankind every morning and people fail to recognise.
A speck of dust that’s what we are in this universe. There are 2 trillion galaxies, ours is one. Billions of planets, ours is earth just one of them, millions of species over the earth, we are just one of them and billions of people and you & I are among the living. Being extra focused, you’ll be extremely driven to achieve your goals. Being extra subtle, sincere ‘n sensitive, kind and compassionate to yourself and your surroundings.
Identify the needs, establish necessities, starve to strive joy love peace, all that you undertake with efficacy & positivity. An unusual exceptional you, who does surprise the people around, try to surprise self too… Breaking the boundaries within, transcending stereotypes into unconventional thinking, fueling self-confidence following the Divine Blueprint. Moving-shaking the comfort zone that holds you back and does not let you soar.
The life that you look up to, is your Job to create. Nobody but it’s you, fight out self the ordinary side of you. Stop being the same, surviving the same challenges. Move ahead level up bring in new challenges and new changes taking new chances. Embrace self-care and self-love, indulge in reading, exercise, take up new excursions ‘n the outdoors laughing loving sharing life. Making meaning caring for others evoking your higher self.
How can you be a step ahead of your own being, serving to help others? Cut off all the toxic intake that seed the root of differentiation and infuse intolerance ‘ hate. Be aware of what’s happening around you but, let that not absorb your insight polluting your mind. Yes, you know how to make it happen?
+Interact a bit extra, look not just see embrace kindness and positivity.
+Embrace erudition for it creates genuine curiosity, it opens up hearts.
+Take authentic concerns in a matter of the world, care and charity.
Don’t ignore life be sensitive and responsive to the need of self and others.
Be amazingly bold all amid the bizarre vibes being curious nay letting down your guards.
Exercising your exceptional choices with the firmness of principalities being splendid of your values and authenticity.
Develop insulation from toxicity, shut down the television set, minimize time spent reading newspapers, ignore the blogs. Train your reasoning abilities to control your decisions; nudge System, the heuristic or experiential system out of the important ones. Train yourself to spot the difference between the sensational and the empirical. This insulation from the toxicity of the world will have an additional benefit: it will improve your well-being says Nassim Nicholas Taleb.
What are you zealous for, to satisfy the people’s point of view? People who pointed fingers at you ‘n your ways, questioned your courage? Who judged you, made the worst of what you were going through? Sure, you now do not want to repeat the patterns. The way out is to choose wisely: what do you give energy to? The peace stealers, your old patterns or to the creation of a new world?
Be mindful in the present moment, being present is a gift for self. Invest energy in creating a threshold to the new fractals creating a new future sharpen an extra edge culminating positive energy. Prove with all your heart enticing yourself, your higher self, building confidence. Fear not and bet on yourself with courage mark goals and chase with courage filled strides. Don’t you know the fruit of the life grown not on the trees but is out on limbs?
Be Humble and be thankful for the people who,
loved you, strengthened you. Inspired and believed in you. Attacked and taught endurance to be on knees, perhaps the heaven where God hears the grief. Those who knocked you and kept you humble. People who kept loving you till things get better, people who lifted you in prayers when the world left you out. People who bad mouth and thaught you to hold on to the power of silence. People who protected you care for you to manifest the world is beautiful. People who become family beyond family so to affirm the power of one world. Be thankful for the problems that become precursors to ramify success.
Be unapologetically yourself loving yourself, setting your definition of success ‘n happiness. And let this be ever ‘n always be on your mind, you are the creator of your destiny your life. Any belief that harms others shall harm you & vice versa. Know how to list your beliefs and give energy accordingly of not plausibility but by the harm, they may cause.
The problem becomes powerless with your awareness. That comes with special interests and self-serving institutions that follow the principle: what good it brings to me and for others too. Inversion is the secret of solving the most difficult problems.
Be Kind, know empathy has no script there is no right way or wrong way to do it. It’s simply listening, holding space, withholding judgment, emotionally connecting, and communicating that incredibly healing message of ‘You’re not alone.’― Brene Brown
Studying courage in textbooks doesn’t make you any more courageous than eating cow meat makes you bovine. By some mysterious mental mechanism, people fail to realize that the principal thing you can learn from a professor is how to be a professor—and the chief thing you can learn from, say, a life coach or inspirational speaker is how to become a life coach or inspirational speaker. So remember that the heroes of history were not classicists and library rats, those people who live vicariously in their texts. They were people of deeds and had to be endowed with the spirit of risk-taking” ― Nassim Nicholas Taleb
Be yourself, believe in yourself, stop comparing yourself with others. Know you are much more than what you think you are. Not a drop in the ocean but, you are the ocean in yourself of love light and courage. Come out of yourself, shine the light share your love ‘n experiences, your narratives that can be a guiding light for others. When you pave the path for yourself you make the way for others, be bold to help others.
Blaze your own trail, be a trendsetter. Get up, dress up, and get going for all that begins in your mind ends well when that is materialised. Create space for success, be practical when you want to know who you are? Don’t ask, but act. Action will delineate and define you, your path from ordinary to extraordinary.